A pep talk: How to not worry about all the other people doing the exact same thing you want to do

A pep talk: How to not worry about all the other people doing the exact same thing you want to do

I’ve been checking out lots of websites lately to analyze how and why successful businesses and blogs do what they do. They all seem to have enticing headlines, overflowing email lists, constant connections to Twitter and Instagram, offers and packages out the wazoo. After checking through websites after website, I started to panic a little – all these people are doing what I want to do and they’re doing it really really well. Is there space for me?

But I’ve been asked this question before and I know the answer…yes, there is ALWAYS room IF you do you.

The internet is vast and the number of people coming online is growing every day. People who want to start businesses and blogs and many are beyond confused about how to make their brand new baby of a website run and could use my help. Those people might be looking for your help too.

While plenty of bloggers offer similar services, no one does everything I do the way I do it. And that goes for you too! You are the only one who has the viewpoint, style, and process of YOU. And while we may learn from each other and certain design elements become trendy, we will never ever be the exactly same. Even the copycats don’t do it the same or as well as the original!

So don’t worry about what everyone else is doing. Whether they launch something similar to what you’ve been planning or every website in your niche starts melding into the same template. There are people out there who want exactly what YOU are shelling. Stick to your guns and build your empire!

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Megan made The Escape

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Today Megan Lyons is here to share how she left her job as a management consultant to start her own business as a health coach! Tell us about yourself and what you do Hi!  I’m Megan, and I’m a Certified Holistic Nutritionist and Health Coach.  I can finally say that I get to do what I absolutely love every day … helping others become their happiest, healthiest selves.  I empower people to reach their health goals through one-on-one health, wellness, and running coaching, as well as group programs like workshops, READ MORE >>>

5 fantastic ways to show off client testimonials

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Rave reviews, client stories, praise - whatever you call them, testimonials are one of the BEST ways to sell your brand, business, your products or yourself to new customers and clients. You can have the best sales-copy in the world, but if it isn't backed by real users saying how much they love you/your product and what it's done for them, you're going to miss out on a lot of sales! I share my testimonials on every page that I'm selling  something and in a sidebar widget using Testimonials by Aihrus. Here's how a READ MORE >>>

10 Mistakes new bloggers always make (and how to fix them)

10 Mistakes new bloggers always make (and how to fix them!)

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This week was lovely. Spent time with a bunch of girlfriends, watched The Grand Budapest Hotel and The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, treated myself to flowers and one of my favorite desserts, had a late-night Mexican food date and a late-night comedy club date, got nerdy with my Badass Babes, and was able to make something really really cool happen for one of my best friends. My April is off to a good start - hope yours is too! 8 scientifically proven ways to maximize your mid-day break >>> Stop trying to READ MORE >>>

Fix-It Friday

Fix-it Friday - Free web and blog design advice from XOSarah.com

Ready to get some work done on your blog design? You've come to the right place! Today I'm handing out blog design tips for free and all you need to is leave a comment with your link. Here’s how it works… Between 8AM and 5PM EST post your blog/website link in the comments and I’ll reply with one tip for improvement. I’ll do my best to give each person a different suggestion so you can come back and use all of my tips to make your blog look shiny and new. I’m also happy to answer short questions like “Is the font I READ MORE >>>

How to create a creative spark when you’re feeling uninspired

How to create a creative spark when you're feeling uninspired

It happens to everyone - you're sitting down to write tomorrow's blog post or brainstorming ideas for a product launch. You dig deep into your brain and...nada...no ideas, no nothing. Just when you need to be creative and come up with something great, your mind decides to run dry of inspiration. So, where do you go to get the generator turning again and create a few sparks? For me it's a shower or an intense workout - anything to get away from my computer and completely clear my mind. Here are a few more ideas from READ MORE >>>

WordPress Tutorial: How to create a horizontal email opt-in

WordPress Tutorial: How to create a horizontal email opt-in

The new trend in business websites and blogs is a big email opt-in right below the header. Unfortunately most opt-ins are stacked vertically right out of the box, so today I'm going to help you do a little coding and get that opt-in to appear all in one line. You're probably wondering how to make it appear under the header in the first place, right? The easiest way to accomplish this is by adding a new widget to your homepage, but that means you'll need to edit the dreaded functions file, which has the ability to crash READ MORE >>>

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